And last night it did...for the first time after so many months. It was not a good feeling. I was hurt but chose not to sulk. Pain is inevitable, misery is a choice and I choose no misery but move on and be happy.
And I am glad that we were able to talk things out and both decided to move on.
I am not expecting that it will not rain again but would surely be good to always come out of a situation together with lessons learned.
The real art of conversation is not only to say the right thing at the right time but also to leave the wrong thing unsaid at the most tempting moment.
Out of the situation, I pretty much admired myself because I saw a material change from what I was and how I reacted to the situation. If I was me before maybe I could have lashed back and just be plain stubborn. But I did not. I think I was pretty cool the entire conversation. I did not think about winning or losing the debate/argument (however you call it). I thought about making our relationship work. I thought about just how much I love him. I thought about how happy we were before I started being so paranoid. And I'm sure I did the right thing.
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Hey Gurl, is my sense right? I know your relationship is extremely difficult because of the distance but I do believe that LOVE can always make it happen. Hope everything is alright.
Hmmm, we're still together. I had just been a little stubborn. We still love each other and he's coming over real soon...
Good to hear that. Well, in relationship, it is not always a bed of roses. To have problem is normal, that is also a proof that relationship is growing.
Thank you for the reminder. I appreciate it. Your name is?
Daniella here
Glad you two are okay. :)
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